I’m so obsessed with becoming a better woman and getting my life together. As a woman, I feel that it is so important to be self-sufficient and independent. Getting your life together before getting into a relationship is extremely important. You don’t need to depend on someone else for your happiness. Find things that make you happy, and do them! Don’t let anything hold you back from your dreams. A person who truly loves you in a relationship will never hold you back. They should be encouraging you and supporting you. Surround yourself with people who truly love and support everything you do.
Sometimes you need to get rid of certain people in your life in order to better yourself, and that’s okay. You don’t need to let certain people stay in your life if they are bringing you down. Don’t allow people who disrespect you to stay in your life if they aren’t healthy for you. Keeping people who bring you down can be extremely mentally draining.
Make it a priority to focus on ways to better yourself every day. Pick one thing that you want to accomplish each day and make it a goal to achieve it. This can be like taking time for yourself. Go to the gym, read that good book you have been meaning to or just take a nap! Stand clear of negative people in your life as they can zap you of your energy. If you need to, block them from your social media. Try to focus on what you do best and not dwell on your shortcomings. Last but not least, show an act of kindness each day for someone. Leave a little extra tip for the waitress, take your neighbors garbage cans out, spend some time with the little old lady that lives alone down the street. This not only will help them, but you will be amazed at how this will lift your spirits!