“You know you’re damaged when a guy finally comes along, giving you love and attention you deserve and you have no idea how to react.”
5 Frequently Asked Questions About Accepting Love
How do I allow myself to be loved?
It’s important to try to work on eliminating the obstacles in your life that are preventing you from allowing love in your life.
1. Let go of past pain. Dwelling on the past will prevent you from experience or even see love when it is right in front of you.
2. Focus on the positive. Focus on what you have accomplished in your life, not what you haven’t completed yet. Try to find the good in everything instead of dwelling on the bad things that are happening around you. You shouldn’t have to look very hard to find something good that is happening in your life.
3. Take a risk. Let go of your fear and allow yourself to be vulnerable. Fear can stop you from finding the love of your life. What is the worst that can happen to you if you step out of your comfort zone? Is it really that bad? Take the risk, face your fear, and allow yourself to find and accept love into your life.
What does it mean to accept love?
When you accept love, it means that you accept the good that another sees in you. A couple that accepts love sees the good in each other, values the qualities in each other and helps each other to become a better individual.
Why do I have such a hard time accepting love into my life?
Sometimes people that have a low self-esteem or a poor self image of themselves have a difficult time accepting love into their life. Accepting compliments from others can be difficult for people that don’t have a good self-image.
If you have been hurt in the past, it can be difficult to accept love back into your life. You know you’re damaged when a guy finally comes along, giving you love and attention you deserve and you have no idea how to react.
Get a journal and take the time to sit down everyday and write something positive about yourself in it.
Practice complimenting others that you are close to. How did this make you feel? This will make it easier for you to begin accepting a compliment from them.
How do you love someone again after they hurt you?
Make sure that you are open and honest with the person that hurt you before accepting them back into your life. Let them know what they did and how it affected you.
Your partner will need to show you that they have changed. This does not happen overnight, so you must be patient with them.
How do you learn to accept love?
If you have been hurt in the past, it can make it more difficult to accept love again.
It is important to accept the past for what it was, deal with it and move on.
Face your fear. The love that you can experience in your life by far will outweigh the risk.
If someone is reaching out to love you, it means that they see something darn good in you. It is important that you recognize that you are worth loving and accept the love into your life!